You likely know that there are good things and not so good things about this decision if youâ€™re having an affair with a married man or are considering an affair with a married man. Yes, heâ€™s gorgeous. He smells good, you are made by him delighted and also you actually, actually like him. Yes the attraction is nearly more that you both feel when you brush past one another; it might feel almost inevitable that youâ€™re going to start an affair at some point than you can bear, from the eye contact to the electricity. If youâ€™re really considering it, it is most likely that youâ€™re nearer to having this happen than you may think.